It's a challenge to manage a short barreled, short sight radius snubby revolver when the SA trigger pull is 2-3x the weight of the revolver, or more, let alone playing with a double action pull which might be 8-10x the revolver weight. Just not a very shooter friendly design. Shooting SA helps, lightening the SA pull helps a lot.
For recoil, dribbling 4.0grn of Bullseye under a 93grn Meister LRN in a 38spcl case is an easy way to make recoil even with ultralight alloy snubbies behave themselves.