You didn't upset me, I'm too old for a fellow on the internet to upset me, heck I've raised 3 daughters so I just enjoy life now...
If you have sanctuaries, bedding areas and food plots you will have does...
I don't worry about what the neighbors have, I manage mine...
I know this might not work for some as they don't have the land, machinery, talent or time to properly manage a herd...I'm just saying in my case it works...