I would seriously consider your choice on rushing in to get married at both your young ages. Sounds like you two don't see eye to eye on everything just yet. Just a friendly word of advice from someone who got married at a young age.

Who gives a rip about a rack. Personally, yeah, I don't shoot immature deer. That doesn't mean I care what someone else shoots. Doesn't bother me at all. I have been fortunate to take 2 P&Y bucks in my lifetime. It's just my own personal choice on what I shoot. Take whatever makes you happy in my book.