I think mohunter ran into Cardeer. And sounds like he's doing good. Tell him I send a howdy.
And as far as the underwear only thing...........that is how I ask for permission. The men always said no. But several times I have been snatched up and drug in the door by some women and had to earn permission. I remember there was this one woman who lived in a trailer in Ohio. She was a really big woman and the trailer smelled of Spam...........