For your daughter... Marlin 15 Little buckaroo
For you... CZ 452(various options), Savage MkII
If you get a youth model your daughter will enjoy it but you will suffer, and if you get a full sized(CZ or Savage) your daughter will suffer.
I would get one she could shoot comfortably and you can just put up with it.
Ahhh what we do for our children.