For a fairly complete list of what you need look at the top of the Relaoding forum for the topic
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It is a good list to start with. You should be able to drive down to Cabela's in Hazelwood,MO and pick up every thing at once. That way you can also see and feel the different kits before you buy. Look for carbide dies, just my personal pref.
Good luck,
mello