ORIGINAL: James B
I would get a small light 38 special revolver. Many women can't pull the slide back on small auto's. If you do get one, take her in the store and see if she can work the slide in a way that would work under pressure.
So your saying that I should take her to a store, and while she is handling the pistol, yell at her, call her stupid and get her angry enough to want to shoot me?!