RE: Am I being unfair??? (long story)
I think your being unfair. Just because he passes up a shot doesn't mean the deer will come to you. I've had deer 2 ft away from offering me a shot and it doesn't happen. I would tell him how important it is to you to get a deer and ask for his help. But to say he can't shoot a deer if you don't is childish. There's plenty of deer, and maybe next years you'll be in the situation he is. Would you want him to tell you he won't hunt with you if you get more deer than him?