RE: accessory help.....
My advice, whatever that is worth, is to not get caught up in all the archery hype. There are very good bows out there that don't break the bank. Reflex, diamond, Bear, Ross. Shoot as many different ones as you can.
Stabilizer, hard to go wrong with an S-coil and one small module. Sights, look at Copper John, Cobra, Spott Hogg.