I agree with your friends, elkaddict.
I disagree with TFOX, that this is an aluminum vs carbon debate. Might used to have been so, but now there are various heavyweight selections in carbon and carbon/glass composites. I've come to be pretty partial to Carbon Express Terminator Selects, a carbon composite arrow with almost exactly the same weight as an Easton XX75 2315, the same diameter as most ICS type carbons and, from my experience shooting them, better toughness than all-carbon arrows. All the benefits of carbon plus decent weight without absurd weighting systems. What's not to like?
BPS posted on another thread that he couldn't get Phantom broadheads to fly straight. Look at the numbers he posted and you should easily see why. I believe I also remember him saying the broadheads he shoots are less than 1" diameter. Is that correct, BPS? Frankly, I'd rather have a big broadhead on a slower arrow, poking a 1 1/4" - 1 1/2" hole thru the heart/lungs than an identical hit with a faster arrow, but a hole less than 1".
I'll also gladly forsake some speed to take the easier tuning, better reliability and better 'forgiveness' of heavier arrows, and have a bow that consumes much less of my time with retuning and maintenance to boot. Less time spent tuning and working on my bow leaves me more time to enjoy SHOOTING the darn thing.
Heck, even if a heavier arrow drops you down to 240 fps, your arrows are still screaming fast compared to whatever you were shooting 25 years ago!