I think I' m on to (not just on

) something...
I have a Diamond hornet. It has a slim grip, very narrow throat, only 1" wide I believe...
While I thoroughly enjoy this bow, I often pick up various model bows when I' m in proshops just to see what you guys are talking about

I have often noted that bigger gripped bows, such as ' 02 bowtech, Parker and even Mathews, felt more natural in my hand. A while back I asked here about the possibility of getting a bigger grip for my diamond, to which I was convinced by many not to do it, bigger grips are bad, they impact more of your hand, are more prone to torque, etc, etc. So I backed off and let the issue drop. But something happened yesterday that got me rethinking...
My brother-in-law bought an ' 02 BT Extreme Solo. He was showing it to me at a family function (didn' t get to shoot it) and the minute I put the grip in my hands, I got that " this is perfect" feeling all over again. I remembered many of you lamenting this grip as too big, but it just feels oh so right to me. On the drive home I was thinking about this situation and it dawned on me- perhaps I was making the rookie mistake of listening to advice based on others indivisual physical dimensions. It would be like getting on her and asking " Hey, this extra large jacket feels great, like it was made for me. What do you guys think?" and getting the response " No, that' s much too big. You want medium" .
So anyway, I' m sitting here at my desk this morning trying to get fired up for a Monday, holding an imaginary bow at full draw. My bow hand is fully relaxed, not tension whatsoever. I measured the gap between by thumb and forefinger, 1 3/8" . If I close the gap to 1" , like the grip of my bow, instant hand tension with no way to alleviate it.
So I' m thinking maybe the bigger grips feel better to me because they fit my individual hand size and musculature much better. Does anyone know the thinkness of the ' 02 bowtech grip throat?