Guessing arrow weight can get you close, but there's no better way to know than actually weighing them. The amount of glue holding the insert inand thefletchings on could vary the results, not to mention the type of fletching itself.
Another thing that sticks out is the amount you let off the limb bolts from maxed out. Unless your buddies bow & tomcat were let out the same amount you'll have a hard time comparing apples to apples.
Scale each bow, weigh the arrows, account for draw length (1 inch = 9-10 fps) , make sure the cam timing marks are "on" and that your bow is getting ~80% let-off and then you can start comparing the end results.
Until then the results are rough comparisons at best IMHO.
Let us know what you find