If this is your first 45-70 then welcome to a whole new world. IMO you have purchased the most fun cartridge, and rifle that you can have. Here is how I would start.
You really do not want to mix cast bullet's and jacketed bullets in your rifle. It is best to stay with one or the other. I prefer the cast bullet's. But then I cast my own. The problem with jacketed bullet's is simple. The 45-70 is so addictive that you can not put it down, and jacketed bullet's are very expensive.
I think the 405 grain cast bullet is perfect for the 45-70. I do not use a gas check with mine. I can run the bullet up to 1600fps without any leading problems, and I cast with straight Wheel Weight, and I do not water quench.
As far as load's are concerned, I prefer RL7. I like RL7 because it gives good case fill. A lot of shooter's use faster powder's, but I do not. IMO they use faster powder's to give more loads per pound. And they are correct they will get more loads per pound, but I prefer case fill over saving a nickel.
My favorite load is 40.0 grains of RL7 under a 405 grain cast bullet. In your Marlin this load should give you around 1600 fps. This load is stout, but not punishing. I shoot this load in four of my five 45-70's, and I get great results. The load is devastating on game. This load is too heavy for my Trapdoor.
You will need to crimp your bullet for the Marlin. I prefer the taper crimp(Redding) over the roll crimp. IMO the taper crimp is less critical with pressure, and soft lead can be affected by crimp's. As I am sure you know casings must be trimmed for a crimp to be used, and trim length is not as critical with a taper crimp.
I also suggest you buy the Lyman M-Die for your belling. This is a great die that will allow you to adjust your belling very closely, thus this die yields less retention problem's. You also want to FL resize your brass.
Who knows, you may even want to try Black Powder. I load and shoot alot of 45-70, PM me if you have any questions. Tom.