Don't be hasty my freind...wait on the Lord....Let Christ be victorious through you ..
Proverbs 3:5Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Something like this deserves at least a2 day fast..you have to be totally dead to self..and let God's thoughts control you ..Seek the councel from above only , Your friend, Chuck7
I have to agree here with Chuck. Obviously I don't know the whole situation but you posted earlier that the two of you really do love each other. Isn't love always worth it? Again, I cannot judge the whole situation but have you tried outside counseling or anything like that? Divorce will lead to so many other situations that will draw the two of you away from God. Please, take a little time apart and let emotions cool off before making a decision that is so final.
Blessings.....Pastorjim
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Don't be hasty my freind...wait on the Lord....Let Christ be victorious through you ..
Proverbs 3:5Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Something like this deserves at least a2 day fast..you have to be totally dead to self..and let God's thoughts control you ..Seek the councel from above only , Your friend, Chuck7
Chuck, I'm not being hasty. This is five years in the making. Her son molested my three year old grand daughter five years agoand it's not a healthy relationship with her son. She refuses to make him live on his own. I can't have my children or grand children in my house because he is a registered sex offender. He's been out of prison for about 15 months and I cannot make him move out, and she refuses to see it my way. He's making enemies and she pretty much told me if I can't accept him and the situation I have to leave. I have tried everything possible I know. I didn't cry this much when my wife of thirty years died. Trust me when I say, I've done all I know. Now it's just time to move on. I hate where I'm living. I hate the hour and a half drive to work. I have to take sleeping pills to sleep. But what do you do when your wife will not let a 24 year old man grow up... I'm not stupid, I know it's over, and I must now move on.
I'm living in my little lake house, and I'm going to make the best out of it. I will guarantee you that within two years I will be guiding this lake full time. Life goes on and now it's time to Cowboy up! Meaning if you get kicked off, stomped on, get up, dust your self up, and hop back on that horse.
One more thing. She had a policeman excort me out ofmy house. After spending an hour with the policeman that knows my grand daughter, he hugged me and cried. He told me,I hadput up with more than any man should have to endure. He also told me I didn't haveto leave, it was completly my choice. I left, I know when I'm not wanted there. She picked her son over me, and that's life. I don't expect her to disown her son, just make him grow up. She still calls him her child, not her son. It's a very abnormal relationship.
Don't be hasty my freind...wait on the Lord....Let Christ be victorious through you ..
Proverbs 3:5Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Something like this deserves at least a2 day fast..you have to be totally dead to self..and let God's thoughts control you ..Seek the councel from above only , Your friend, Chuck7
Chuck, I'm not being hasty. This is five years in the making. Her son molested my three year old grand daughter five years agoand it's not a healthy relationship with her son. She refuses to make him live on his own. I can't have my children or grand children in my house because he is a registered sex offender. He's been out of prison for about 15 months and I cannot make him move out, and she refuses to see it my way. He's making enemies and she pretty much told me if I can't accept him and the situation I have to leave. I have tried everything possible I know. I didn't cry this much when my wife of thirty years died. Trust me when I say, I've done all I know. Now it's just time to move on. I hate where I'm living. I hate the hour and a half drive to work. I have to take sleeping pills to sleep. But what do you do when your wife will not let a 24 year old man grow up... I'm not stupid, I know it's over, and I must now move on.
I'm living in my little lake house, and I'm going to make the best out of it. I will guarantee you that within two years I will be guiding this lake full time. Life goes on and now it's time to Cowboy up! Meaning if you get kicked off, stomped on, get up, dust your self up, and hop back on that horse.
One more thing. She had a policeman excort me out ofmy house. After spending an hour with the policeman that knows my grand daughter, he hugged me and cried. He told me,I hadput up with more than any man should have to endure. He also told me I didn't haveto leave, it was completly my choice. I left, I know when I'm not wanted there. She picked her son over me, and that's life. I don't expect her to disown her son, just make him grow up. She still calls him her child, not her son. It's a very abnormal relationship.
CHA CHING BOOYAH!.....................VIVA JANKOWSKI......
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Live Life in such a way that those who do not know Christ will come to know Him because they know you
I believe in salvaging a relationship if possible but if both sides have conceded to divorce and can work it out to end painlessly as possible then such is life and the healing process can begin.Bob has been going at this relationship alone for awhile and is suffering as only he can and the rest of us should be here in whatever capacity he needs us to be.myself I'm here as a sounding board if he needs and help to drag his deer or hogs when he drops them!
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If it weren't for hunting I wouldn't work! Gotta pay for my vices somehow don't I?
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Well partner, Iwas here the day that Rev made his first post..and he PMed me that first day..and I can tell you that Bob loves God more than 1000 hogs and white tails..I'm here as a very close spiritual brother ..Bob knows my heart..However; I've already said my peaceand I plan to let God and Bob deal with the rest..
10To the married people I give instructions, yet not I but the Lord, that a wife should not depart from her husband; 11but if she should actually depart, let her remain unmarried or else make up again with her husband; and a husband should not leave his wife.
Your probably getting tired of seeing these posts but I want it to be known that regardless of your choices I don't judge you.
I divorced my second wife for a lot less . . .I'm not proud of it . . .quite the contrary . . .I hated that it happened, but she was abusing my son. I gave her one warning to get herself together but the abuse continued.
I believe God wants us to forgive . . .but I don't believe that He wants us to allow someone to hurt our children . . .much less rape our children, nor does He expect us to then forsake our own and then coddle the offender.
This is a dang hard time your going thru Rev. I believe that you must be a Spirit filled man to have endured as long as you have. I believe that the Spirit is still at work . . . . .where He's leading you may not be what you want, and it may not be acceptable to your brothers and sisters . . . .it's between you and God. If I were you I'd take some time and have my grand-children over to the lake. You have my prayers and as one who has been where you are I admire the commitment and can appreciate the suffering you've been thru.
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To Rev,
