It is harsh world out there. Its hard to find a good christian woman these days. All the ones I run into are either sex crazied, drunks, morals are all shot.
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It is harsh world out there. Its hard to find a good christian woman these days. All the ones I run into are either sex crazied, drunks, morals are all shot.
Wow!At what church is that?
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Jesus said, "he who stands firm to the end will be saved" Mark 13:13.
Live Life in such a way that those who do not know Christ will come to know Him because they know you
Just a bit of friendly advise. When your hunting something, Know what it is your hunting. Learn what is important to them, and where they tend to spend time at. Don't put your boots on to go hunting without a word of prayer to start your hunt or your day.
If your hunting a good christian woman same rules would apply. You know what is important to them. You don't go in the middle of the ocean to find a Gobbler. Your probably not goin to find the type of woman your looking for in a bar or the party scene. A lot of churches have went back to the old fashioned single youth and young adult fellowships with several churchs to reach a younger generation and also allow a good chance for christians to meet each other. You might check out something like that. Take your time, pray about it and visit some churches even. Sometimes you might not find the person your looking for but you can hear a great sermon or two that has some meat in it you can take with you.
It is harsh world out there. Its hard to find a good christian woman these days. All the ones I run into are either sex crazied, drunks, morals are all shot.
"Sex-crazed?" How do you know they're sex-crazed? And where are you finding them? I'm not looking myself, but I know guys who are looking for sex-crazed women and they claim they're really hard to find.
Drunks? Well I figure if you're looking for drunks, you'll find 'em where drunks hang out. If you're hangin' out where drunks hang out, you're gonna find drunks. Make sense?
They are out there. Takes a little time to find one that is worth your time. Since my divorce, I have dated a few ladies. Sex crazed is certainly a valid description of some women. Now, dont get me wrong...I think sex is a wonderful thing to share between husband and wife. I have met a couple who drink like fish. I have met a couple who have other various issues. All of them were "Christians". I happene to be dating a wonderful lady, at the moment. I am very hopeful about this one and havent found her Achille's Heel. Heck, she even makes elderberry jelly and cherry crumb pies!!! Oh, and she is an excellent ballroom dancer.
After some thought about the issues I decided to sit down and make a list. It is a two part list with one part being "Must Haves" and the second part is "Deal Breakers". If I might be so bold, I suggest you do the same. Along the same lines...trundle off to a Christian bookstore and look up a book called "Love and Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
The funny thing is, when I was young I was always in a rush to be dating someone. Now I find I am much more cautious. I take my time and really dont push selling myself. I am what I am and if that isnt appealing, please move on. Conversely, I dont waste my time pursuing a pretty skirt who has beliefs or habit or morals I cant concur with.
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When it absolutley, positively has to die....30/06
I agree that they are out there. If you are a member of a small church it is hard to find christian women, most are taken. My husband and I belong to a small church and his boss couldn't find the right girl for a long time. He went on a few dates with gals he met but very quickly changed that because he knew that wasn't for him. He is now married and very happy at that because he held out for the girl God wanted him to marry. I'll pray that God sends the perfect one your way. Always search with a prayerful heart, and if you have the patience to wait for the right one God will bless you in that. Hang in there keep your head up and stand on the Lord Jesus Christ.
well my church is much a no because most of the women in my church are much older then I. i dont really go to bars to look for women. any woman that i have ran into doesnt fit what i want. none of them are really that religious.
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I rather have a bad day in the woods then a good day at work
Meeting girls at church is one possibility but not always the best option. There are about 2,500 families in my church but the opportunity to meet members of the opposite sex is really limited. There are classes and all but mostly people go there to study the Bible or other faith related issues, not to socialize.
I suggest you look for other groups that offer the chance to socialize. A coed bowling league for example.
But I think one of the best bets would be to start taking classes at your local college, community college, etc. You'll have the opportunity to meet some nice people, some of them girls, and you'll learn something too.
One of the very best places for a man to meet a woman is ballroom dance classes. There are tons of women who want to learn and a few guys. Call the instructors of a class and ask if they could arrange a partner for you to take classes with. Chances are, they will have a list to choose from. Worked well for me, I think.
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When it absolutley, positively has to die....30/06
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