my granfather used to have these stupid old sayings and i just always thought "crazy ole coot" things like
never argue with an idiot you'll lose everytime
keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth shut, and you'll be fine
man i miss him, but i'm learning, he also used to say "experience is the best teacher" i have found this very true, for these are the lessons i remember best
chuck not sure why you felt the need to apologize to anyone, but i have found most of the folks her don't keep grudges against each other, (not long anyway) especially if they/we are living like we are commanded
keith