Taz,
Yes we do seem to have some of the same challenges.
There are people that, for whatever reason, will only think
of a child as a means of gaining something for themselves.
Having possesion of a child is a "meal" ticket, with"meal"
unfortunately being a loose term. I still think about and
pray for your situation. It seems clear that boy needs
you and your family.
God bless you, yours and Jimmy (hopefully soon to be yours
in more than just your heart

)
PK