My pastor told me once not to look for a girl, but let them come to you. Okay alright I said to myself. I pray for a nice girl to come my way. My question is alright a girl comes your way. You are not interested in her. Or the other way you are interested in a girl she is not interested in you. I have prayed for something to happen with this one girl I am interested in. Nothing has happened. How are you suppose to meet someone. I am a shy little dude when it comes to the ladies. Should let her make a move or should I do something?
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My pastor told me once not to look for a girl, but let them come to you. Okay alright I said to myself. I pray for a nice girl to come my way. My question is alright a girl comes your way. You are not interested in her. Or the other way you are interested in a girl she is not interested in you. I have prayed for something to happen with this one girl I am interested in. Nothing has happened. How are you suppose to meet someone. I am a shy little dude when it comes to the ladies. Should let her make a move or should I do something?
Listen to Garth Brooks song......Unanswered prayers..
1224 i still think you may be trying to hard too make something happen that may/may not happen, ease up, ask her out, you'll know when everything is right, i had been thru a couple and out of what would be consideredbad relationships when me and my wife met, niether of us was looking for a "mate", but it was meant to be, my wife loves to fish, dosen't care if i hunt (within reason), and as we grew closer and closer friends, it was evident that God had brought us together for a reason, it will happen for you, but you can't "make it happen"
BTW i went thru several duds before i found the "one"
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things are more like right now than they've ever been
It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task which, more than anything else, will affect its successful outcome.
William James
I wouldn't rush anything just work on your friendship and get to know each other and really enjoy that part. I've been married 12 years now and if I had it to over I would have taken more time to get to knowmy wifeas her own person first. Most of marriage is the little things you don't think of when you are dating or head over heals emotionally. Marriage is what kind of food does she like, how many kids does she want, where does she want to live now and then later, what are her beliefs about God, parenting, hunting, money? You get my point. Get to know her and just enjoy being around her and then work on being the best man of God you can be so when the time comes you have something great to offer her. Pray you will only fall for one God has for you.
All this said, on the other side of the coin, when the time comes and God reveals it to both of you that you are a match, be honorable and take her off the market, don't leave her hanging too long.
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Mike
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
God will bring the PERFECT mate for you, into your life when it's time...His time. Patience is a virture humans lack pitfully,starting with me....I have none...and it's cost me dearly many manytimes.
learn to WAIT...this IS a part of maturing that you MUST get a handle on. Take from someone withcrispy-crittered edges...wait, don't look.
the Bible says alot about patience..and that applies to us older dudes as well....it's just harder @ a younger age.
1224 you have received some great advice, don't be pushy or needy brother, but by the same token there is no harm in simply asking a lady out to dinner, whether it works out or not.
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I am a shy little dude when it comes to the ladies. Should let her make a move or should I do something?
I was very shy as well when I was in my 20's and learned to overcome it. It was not easy but If I could do it anyone can. She'll never know your intentions unless you ask her ? Did you ever think that maybe she is feeling the same way and doesn't know how to approach you or maybe thinks your not interested?Relax everything good comes in its own time.
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relationships Gods will or what?
