Amen dk!!!
I am proud of my kids and I don't want to seem bragging, but we (my wife and I) are complemented regularly when we are out with out kids on how well behaved they are, especially by elders. I don't think it's anything special, different or note worthy. We just have NEVER been afraid to bust their lil arses when they do/did wrong and they know that there are consequences for their own actions. Sadly it seems that such a notion has been lost on MANY parents today.
I laugh in many of our friends and relatives faces when they ask us how we get such good results with our kids yet they become HORRIFIED when I am quick to say, "Each of them has the right amount of leather strap in their diet"! You would think I was beating them with bullwhips at high noon before a public crowd by some of the reactions I get from people. Yet TOO THE KID I can show you the ones who know right from wrong and whose parents aren't afraid to "drag em behind the woodshed".
ADHD, ADD, Hyperactivity, threatening others, poor behavior/results in school,disrespect for elders and others property??? Such childhood "diseases" all share one common trait, they are ALL cured by judicious amounts of "footimus in assicus" applications!!!
RA