Deerhunter, as far as the women go, have you ever thought that maybe you just might be plain ole ugly

? Me . . .I am dog ugly, but I have never had any illusions otherwise. I was way too lucky with the ladies tho and I think it was because I just did'nt worry about it and so never viewed them as an object.
It's like my grandaddy used to say when asked how he had been so lucky with the ladies . ."It twer'nt my good looks, but my cunning ways"

Hey man , hang in there, things may pick up for you in a different school. If they don't, . . .this too shall pass. The main thing is to stay connected to the ONE thru whom your salvation is made possible so that you know that no matter what happens all things will work out for your good.
Peace Bro.