why cant i be normal

[deerhunter1224]

I dont feel like am like most people my age. There are a few things that I do that people whatin their twenties. I am still virgin at 23. Not many 23 year virgins around. I dont like to just sit around on the the weekends. I always have to be doing something. I think things though way to much. I am always looking at what could happen if I do this thing. Also a big thing is it seems like everyone goes some where on spring break but me. I can never find anyone to go. I can never seem to get any action at all from a girl. I could find it but I dont want some STD.

[david m]

"normal" is an interesting word, because everyone's definition of normal is different.

more importantly, ask yourself, "why can't i be happy?" and then take the steps necessary to change that.

[MOTOWNHONKEY]

If what your doing makes you abnormal than we need more abnormal people in this world. Keep up the good fight and someday your soul mate will be revealed.

[Chuck7]

The enemy of your soul has you focusing on the the wrong things. My friend ...make a mental list of things tha tyou are thankful for. Let me help.

1. You are not in a wheel chair.
2. You don't have cancer.
3. You are still a virgin.{ That is awesome in the age we live in.}
4. You can read.
5. And if you know Jesus.....you are a very rich man.
1 Thess.5:18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

I begin each day by singing and playing about 4 hymns on my guitar. That ,with prayer really sets the tone for the entire day. God is awesome my friend. The best friend you could ever have.
Chuck7

[m.t.hands]

great words, dh1224 someday you will be very happy, you have your head in the right place, and you are able to keep clear thoughts, the world needs more like you, your testimony here has touched me, and i know, yes i can remember back that far, how great the temptations can be, but i assure you somewhere out there, that there is a special women for you, and that the wait will be worth it.

BTW i still have a book here with your name on it, pm me an address or PO box and i'll send it no strings attached, well just that you read it and then pass it on

You know I was all up in a tizzy earlier this bow season. I sit all day and don't see nothing for days on end. Then it popped in my head. I bet there are a few guys out there that would love to be able to just pull back a 70lb bow. I bet there is some people out there that would love to have the time just to sit in the woods to think and sort things out. In fact, I bet there are a few people that would love to just be able to walk back to a tree and have the ability to climb it.

Brother, I have been in the same boat as you basically my whole life. Finding a girl ain't the answer, beleive me. You could end up married and so depressed, that you wish you would die every day. But you got to remember one thing. God love you. What we all deserve is the Lake of Fire. But God is like this friend that will forgive. Remember, today could be the last day on this earth. God has gave us everything we need and more.

I was extremely depressed all thru my teens and 20's. I took it out in rage. Rage was the only thing that made me feel better. At leastI was feeling something. Man theres a better way.

I still struggle with anxiety. But I would love it if you could remember Phil 4:6-7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

These verses get me thru my day. Everytime I want to start ramming cars on the road, I think of this. Cause in the big picture, our wants are a small matter.

Now, I still go back to my old ways all the time, so don't think I have it licked. But one thing I have found I require. and thats fellowship. I was gone to London for over a week. In that time I didn't go to church. No talk of God, and man for a week, I turned into a Spiritual mess. I require fellowship. You sound as if you could use some too.

Hang in there bud.

[Rebel Hog]

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[Rebel Hog]

deerhunter, you're normal my friend! All you need is some guidence. Buy this book.

Living the Extraordinary Life
Charles F. Stanley
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[Leafrivermac]

I feel that your normal Deerhunter. You may not be happy, and that is what I would be seeking Gods guidance in.
I sincerely wish that I had waited until I married to become sexualy active. I was at work one night and the guys were speaking of their sexual exploits, when one guy finally spoke up and said "I have been married 25 yrs , and my wife is the only woman I have ever known". He waited until he was married at 25 for the sex thing. Because of my past . .and the misery it had caused me, this hit me like a ton of bricks. What a great testimony he had! . . .How he shone! I wished that I could say the same thing.

[Alex The Hawk]

If You are abnormal Iam a retard, LOL.

Hang in there, praise the Lord and he will guide you.

Shalom