I just found out that a guy I' ve known for almost 10 years is gay.
Now usually I have a pretty good gay-dar, I can tell if someone is gay or not just by first impressions, ie-Greg Louganis, the olympic diver,,,I called it the first time I saw him, but this guy named John really surprised me.....kinda. You know how you can just tell someone is gay but in the back of your mind you really don' t want to believe it...well, it was like that.
Oh well, we weren' t that close anyhow, I had plenty of friends before I met him. He is no longer considered a friend to me. Call it homophobic or whatever but our friendship was based on drinkin beer and talkin about women, now that is ruined, plus a friend would have been honest up front, he knew how I felt about fags. I don' t have room in my life for a fudge packer.
It was kinda weird how I found out, I was talking to his room mate and he said that they were " breaking up" then I said, " you mean not living together" and he said, " No, not sleeping together...." I guess they were more than room maters.
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