Dear Abby,
My husband has a long record of money problems. He runs up huge
credit-card bills and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them off, he shouts
at me, saying I am stealing his money. He says pay the minimum and let our kids
worry about the rest, but already we can hardly keep up with the interest.. .
Also he has been so arrogant and abusive toward our neighbors that most of them
no longer speak to us. The few that do are an odd bunch, to whom he has
been giving a lot of expensive gifts, running up our bills even more. . Also, he has
gotten religious. One week he hangs out with Catholics and the next with people
who say the Pope is the Anti-Christ, and the next he's with Muslums. . Finally,
the last straw. He's demanding that before anyone can be in the same room with
him, they must sign a loyalty oath. It's just so horribly creepy! Can you help? .
Signed,
Lost in DC
Dear Lost:
Stop whining, Michelle.
You can divorce the jerk any time you want. The rest of us are stuck
with him for two more years!