That's just messed up. Of course we will never know the whole story but if she agreed to take them for his viewing only he should have honored that, and she should have got rid of those things the second she knew they weren't together anymore.
That was just plain old wrong on both sides of the table. I can't believe that, that scenario is happening on a regular basis. It's just wrong all the way around.
Strange world, ain't it?
