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Old 01-31-2007, 07:22 PM   #1
 
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To the web and those who have read some of my post's.

I do apologize to whom ever I have struck wrong.

I have a Nephew that has been burning my phone up and my email lately. I am one of the few he will put it out to without fear of ridicule*. His main question to me is Uncle "T" how can people say they support us as soldiers but don't support us here in Iraq? We have done what we see is right. When I am home I see TV, radio, billboards saying what we are doing is useless, mistakes,wrong. It reminds me of whatI have read and been told about the soilders coming home from "Nam". It seems simular even though I know its not the same. They may be talking about the the commander and chief and my superiors, but we are apart of that chain of command. We are dying, helping, building and showing strengthfor what we see is the right thing to do where we are at. A lot of what people see nothing but bad things from Iraq, very little has been shown, talked about or acknowledge of the good we have done. Thats what we need to hear and see when we come home.
These are just some of the things hehas talked to me about. It also has come from others serving with him day in and day out. I have very few answers to give him. I listen, try to relate to his situation. His is some what different from what mine was. But he knows where I have beenand some of what I have done. I am one of the few he opens up to that doesn't sugar coat.
If I have offended or push your buttons in the wrong way I apologize. I have tried to find some answers here from different people and from other sites. Its tough to hear a fellow soldier much less it coming from family to be confused and disappointedfrom what he hear's from home.
I am not lashing out at anybody here or any indivdual here on this site.

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Old 01-31-2007, 07:46 PM   #2
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Tell your nephew he has one major supporter here.
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Old 01-31-2007, 07:51 PM   #3
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I must have missed something. I haven't seen where you have something to apologize for.

Tell your nephew that many of these same people who are criticizing the war while saying they support the soldiers are the same people who will be telling everybody how the Super Bowl teams could have done better on February 5th. Saying you supportthe soldiers (or military) BUT.... don't support the war is a subtle way of not having somebody knock you on your back for bagging on the military. Tell him that life is full of people who have great advice and love to tell you that you're wrong but have very little or often no real world experience.

Also tell him that the majority of Americans do support the military and see the need for the war. We may not all agree on how the war is being prosecuted, etc., etc. but then, the vast majority of us simply don't have all of the information that the military leaders and President Bush have.

p.s. That but dust post was priceless.
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Old 01-31-2007, 08:40 PM   #4
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FirstBow, you have nothing to be sorry about. You are sharing and debating your opinions, and there is nothing wrong with that. From what I've seen, I like you, you have strong opinions and good reasoning. You have brought up great points, and have caused me to learn things. Keep posting, I'll keep debating, and hopefully we'll both learn from different opinions, which aren't so different in alot of ways.

As for CalHunter, from what I've seen of your post, you are the kind that cannot be debated. It's not because your points are so good, but it's like talking to a brick wall. You, as well as many others on this site whom support both sides, are so hard-headed with your opinions that you fail to listen to opposing opinions and are so caught up in disagreeing with everything some people say that your debates go nowhere. My advice to you, everyone has an opinion, not everyone who agrees with you are right, and not everyone who disagree with you are wrong. Listen to opinions, learn from others, and develop your opinions based on everchanging information. Listen, it's how you learn. This paragraph goes to others on this forum as well, both sides of the table.

P.S. I'm not going to defend my stance on supporting the troops and not the war again. Knock me on my back if you want, just know that I'll get back up with the same stance until you prove me a point. In fact, tell me why I can't support the troops and not the war, I'm excited to hear your reasoning.
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Old 01-31-2007, 09:50 PM   #5
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First of all, I don't think you came here to "find answers" at all, First Bow.

You came here to state your views, and speak your mind, and mostly question how anyone can support the troops without supporting THE WAR IN IRAQ, which is fine. What is not fine is coming here to state you views, and ask your questions but refusing to answer questions you get in return, while inferring that as a soldier you know all about what we're doing in Iraq.

Peta addressing you on another thread:
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First bow, Ive read quite a few of your posts recently and you seem to have trouble differentiating between the troops, and the people that are calling the shots back here in the states.With very few exceptions Ive seen nobody criticize the way the troops have handled themselves, or any of thier actions in Iaq.Nobody has anything against our armed forces and I think theyve done quite well with what theyve been given to work with.In reality the amount of time weve been there and the daily violence thats occuring along with having thier hands tied by US and Iraqi politics theyve done marvelously, the number of dead could have been much higher that we see today.
That sums it up. I don't buy the idea that you simply don't "get" what peta so eloquently stated. I think that you ignore the hard questions, and you pretend not to understand the differences between criticism of the leadership and criticism of the troops themselves so as to make your point. I believe you have strong feelings about anyone who disagrees with what is happening in Iraq.

Oh and while we're on the subject or Iraq, those of us who disagree with certain aspects of our actions in Iraq, wholeheartedly support our efforts elsewhere. Its hard to discuss such things with you because you post a blurb here and blurb there and really won't engage in a conversation long enough to really try to get those "answers" you claim you've so innocently come here to seek.

Maybe some of this is finally sinking in for you. You are realizing that you are not the only person who has served and is posting on this forum. Maybe you're a bit stunned at the reactions you got and the intelligent dissenting opinions you heard for which you simply had no logical, sensible retort...some of them from veterans, who served just like you to provide the freedom to ask questions of and be demanding about our leadership.

Hey maybe you're beginning to see that some of us support the troops so much that we get enraged when we hear Rumsfeld make excuses about not providing enough body armor or armored vehicles nearly 2 years after "IED" became a household word, so to speak. We don't want to hear excuses about why our troops don't have what they need to kick ass. Some of us are questioning how those troops we support are being used and why. For what? For whom? Some of us don't ever want to see our leadership enter another campaign without pulling the cork completely out of the bottle, putting our full commitment into total devastation of our enemies as we did in Gulf War I.

We are infuriated about "embedded reporters" and could see in advance that they'd use their on-the-scene reporting as a club against our troops... and some did just that in spades.

We want to puke when we hear that in certain deadly situations our troops have to call for permission to fire...in a freaking war zone.


, it is our support of those kids like your nephew, which causes us to hold our leaders to uncompromising high standards, to have high expectations and to perform as well as our kids do every day.

Furthermore we are aware of what $400,000,000,000 is and how spending it when you don't have it (because you failed to garner enough support from other nations going in), leaves you vulnerable and stretched thin as a nation against other threats from the likes of North Korea, Syria, Iran, and on and on...further risking the lives of our kids...

Yea, First Bow, its not as simple as you or your nephew would like it to be. It just isn't. That you fail to see that is no big deal; that you would go on to dichotomize such a complex situation into "either you support Iraq or you don't support the troops" is just maddening.

If you and your nephew truly don't understand it then perhaps you should pursue your stated mission in its purest form...try to "find the answers."

Only this time, when you hear them, you should ask yourselves why these dissenting voices weren't raised when we entered Afghanistan...why is Iraq the point of dissent? What's the difference between the two (because obviously for you and a lot of others there both just the same.)

Either you do "get it" and are pretending you're not, which I would find dispicable, or you truly don't get it...in which case, your apology is truly in order.

Next time you're nephew calls and tell you he sees billboards, TV, and radio comments that question things, tell him we know how he feels...some of us were humiliated, spit on, and accosted for even so much as wearing our dress uniforms in transit during Viet Nam...yea, we know, and because of that we're watching his back while he's looking down the barrel of his assault rifle. We don't ever again want him to be put in a place where his time, efforts, youth, and perhaps his life might be spent for a people who do not deserve it, in a place that doesn't matter, for a cause that isn't true to Americans first and foremost.

And anyone that isn't as committed to protecting our kids from lousy leadership and political horse-trading while placing their lives at risk is truly the type that should be "knocked on his backside."
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Incredible VC, just plain incredible. I was empowered about my postion on the war, and believe that this post completely supports my views on the discrimination against those who have an opinion like mine. Incredible.
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Old 01-31-2007, 10:46 PM   #7
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In fact, tell me why I can't support the troops and not the war, I'm excited to hear your reasoning.
Man, he just told you. Did you not read his post at all. I don't know, maybe you can't comprehend it. Its obvious as can be to any rational person.
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Old 01-31-2007, 11:07 PM   #8
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BigCountry perhaps you are going to have to explain it to me with all of your rational wisdom. Why, why do you tell me that I can't support the troops while disagreeing with the conflict that the government has sent them to fight for. I pray to God every night that the troops suceed, that they make it home. I donate things to care packages, I say pray for our troops, I keep a Support our Troops magnet on my truck. Are you calling me a liar, are you accusing me of blasphemeoy? Tell me O rational one, how is it that I don't support the troops. I'm sorry if I sound confrontational, but I am sick and tired of people like you telling me how I feel, questioning my patriotism, and calling me un-American. I may be wrong in my actions, so tell me how I can change my ways to fit your standards of a good American.
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As for CalHunter, from what I've seen of your post, you are the kind that cannot be debated. It's not because your points are so good, but it's like talking to a brick wall. You, as well as many others on this site whom support both sides, are so hard-headed with your opinions that you fail to listen to opposing opinions and are so caught up in disagreeing with everything some people say that your debates go nowhere. My advice to you, everyone has an opinion, not everyone who agrees with you are right, and not everyone who disagree with you are wrong. Listen to opinions, learn from others, and develop your opinions based on everchanging information. Listen, it's how you learn. This paragraph goes to others on this forum as well, both sides of the table.

P.S. I'm not going to defend my stance on supporting the troops and not the war again. Knock me on my back if you want, just know that I'll get back up with the same stance until you prove me a point. In fact, tell me why I can't support the troops and not the war, I'm excited to hear your reasoning.
Well, let me see if I can sum up your post about me.
1. I don't have good points.
2. I'm like talking to a brick wall.
3. I'm so hardheaded with my opinions that I fail to listen to opposing opinions.
4. I'm so caught up in disagreeing with what some people say that my debates go nowhere.


Did I miss anything? If not, why are you giving advice to a brick wall???
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Nope, think you pretty much got it.
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