Had parent teacher conferences a week or so ago.My 7 yr old daughter who is in the second grade is doing very well in school, almost straight As, no discipline problems, participates in class and is involved in after school projects as well.But this teacher has a problem with something I never thought Id have to goto the school and discuss.
My daughter has friends
Theres 4 or 5 girls that play together at recess and after school.They have since kindergarten.They stay at each others houses on weekends, theyre involved in the same activities.They dont disrupt the class but they always play together.
Apparently Im supposed to have a talk with my daughter about playing with everyone and not just her friends so none of the students feel left out and get thier feelings hurt.Report cards came out and once again, there was a note on them that my daughters not including everyone in in thier games.
What the
..Deleted by CalHunter... are these kids gonna do when they get older?Im all for making new friends but why would anyone force thier kids to play with someone they dont want to?Since when is having friends in school a discipline problem.Since when are kids so sensitive they need to mandate that everyone be included.
Ive talked to several of the parents of these other girls and they find it ridiculous as well.Im going to have a talk with my daughter but its probably not the one they were expecting me to have.As long as her grades are good and theyre not being disruptive she doesnt have to include anyone she doesnt want to.Am I wrong here or reading to much into this or are we trying to turn the next generation of kids into a bunch of sissies?