Sure military brass is thicker! Same goes for the 7.62 Nato and 308. All the military stuff is intended for gas operated auto loaders. Sure all this is going to translate to slightly higher pressures in SOME civilian rifles. So what? The point is they are essentially the same animal and maybe this explains why you canpurchase milsurp ammo by the ton. It works. Duh.

Has anyone ever blown up their gun with it?

Any modern firearm in good condition can certainly handle the slightly elevated pressures.
I wish I had a dollar for every round of it I've shot in both calibers. I would be reading this thread from my private island somewhere.
Tempest in a teacup, gentlemen. Anyone who doesn't want to shoot it is fine with me. The price has been going crazy from supply and demand anyway. Meanwhile I think we can expect another million rounds of 5.56 to be safely fired in America's 223 rifles this year...and the next.