Outlaw,
Riding someone elses coattails for a while is a good way to pick up the basics for a certain area pretty quickly........if you want to get truly good at it, it just takes time and commitment. When i went thru my " learning curve" phase I basically abandoned all other means of fishing and stuck to the long rod. I ate, slept and dreamt about catching fish on a fly........I tied my own flies, read anything I could get my hands on, and what I think is most important: I fished ALONE.
No pressure to catch fish........only to learn. I fished every chance I could and learned from every new trip.
If you are already a decent fisherman with regular gear , fishing for the same species, believe it or not flyfishing is not THAT much different. Its still fishing.
Now you are throwing the line instead of the weight of a " lure" but a fish doesn' t change its eating habits because you have a flyrod in your hands now.
If you' re serious then bite the bullet (there' s no other way) and get yourself a decent outfit appropriate for the species you intend.........and my personal recommendation? Start FLYTYING as soon as you feel the flyfishing bug bite you. Flytying is one of those areas that allows you complete freedom of patterns, and a real feeling of satisfaction when you take fish on something you made. Its kind of expensive to start, but when you aquire most of the materials and tools you' ll need it starts paying itself off pretty darn quicly. At $2.00 on up for most flies it gets pretty expensive as conditions change and new and different flies are needed.........plus you are gonna lose a BUNCH.
Get an outfit, get a book, and learn how to cast...........if you can' t get the fly there in the first place with regularity you' ll either become frustrated.........or it will light a fire as something to be mastered. Casting isn' t everything, and most " fishable" casts aren' t long ones but presentation is a BIG part of flyfishing, and many times its more important than pattern.
Ok I' m getting long winded.........if you have any specifics feel free to ask. I have 22yrs of flyfishing and almost 10 guiding under my belt so I' ll be happy to help if I can.
Oh yeah.........that little guy at the bottom of my post? That' s a good start for what your casting loops and rod position should look like.